They use your love of virtue as a hostage.

I shall use my love as bait and let them who wish it pay the toll.

And you will never, never again use my love for him against me!

"Then Moander won't be able to use your love for her against us."

I used his love for you to punish him beyond anything otherwise possible.

"And once it has been learned, will you use your love to destroy us?"

She would not use his love of her to hurt him.

So she used his love for Sarah against him.

She manipulated him completely and then used his love to her own advantage.

You're the one who uses our love for you to try to control us.